And that is the larger point: you can choose to find joy in things. I tried to explain this to my son who was perpetually frustrated (except on Avatar). Whether you are walking through Galaxy's Edge or watching Star Trek or playing D&D, you can choose to release the cynicism and negativity and embrace the craft and illusion and find real joy in these fantasies and these worlds. I have grown increasingly frustrated with Star Wars and D&D of late, and it took this trip to Disney to make me realize that what I was really growing frustrated with was cynical and angry fans -- and my own cynicism and anger at times.
I am especially guilty of this with D&D, having allowed myself to become unhappy with WotC and its choices and not cultivating my own joy in D&D -- which, as much as I love Star Trek and Star Wars and super-hero comic books and films, D&D has been the single greatest source of this kind of joy in my life for 4 decades now.
tl;dr version: find joy in the books, movies, theme parks and games that you love and don't let "fandom" negativity take that from you. Embrace the illusion and artifice and dive in deeply.