My neck of the woods that woukd be a nothing burger. Parents blew up at kids was essentially the default at least occasionally. Alot worse was also the default in a lot of homes.
Still better than 1980s lol.
Ideal world sure. Let me know when the worlds ideal. Context matters.
Drunk raging parent figure blowing was just another Tuesday. That's all I had to deal with friends got it so much worse.
Mod Note:
I am sorry that you had to go through that. But, whatever your intent, this is reading to some like you are saying that, since it was everyday, it was no big deal. Drunken shouting at kids is a big deal, no matter how common. And to the kid on the receiving end of it, the context is abusive parental behavior. It happening more often doesn't make it less abusive.
Please do not position abusive parental behavior as dismissible on these boards. Thanks.