TaranTheWanderer
Legend
So....Sending:
You send a short Message of twenty-five words or less to a creature with you are familiar. The creature hears the Message in its mind, recognizes you as the sender if it knows you, and can answer in a like manner immediately. The spell enables creatures with Intelligence scores of at least 1 to understand the meaning of your Message.
1. You must be FAMILIAR with the recipient. What does that mean? If I managed to get within 30 feet of someone and spoke to them, am I familiar with them? What if they were disguised? What if I scried them first?
2. The creature recognizes you as the sender (makes sense since you are familiar with them)
3. recognizes you IF IT KNOWS YOU. Which implies that ... they aren't familiar with you...
How do you rule this kind of thing?
In our game, I met a powerful illusionist. I got within 30 feet of her, while she was disguised, had a conversation with her. Then, later, I scried her and she looked totally different. Later, I attempted to send her a Sending to set up a meeting: "Hi, I'm a fellow Magician and I want to trade spells with you. Would you like to meet? Where?"
The DM ruled that I was not sufficiently 'Familiar' with the person to send a sending.
Due to that ruling, I was unable to send a Sending to a fellow PCs father to warn him of danger because I'd never met him in person. Despite all the stories I'd been told about him.
What is your experience with this spell?