Remathilis
Legend
As far as the rudeness goes, I've seen some of it locally at my FLGS. Saturday night is open gaming night at the FLGS, and we have several 4e games going that night (some RPGA, some private). Earlier this summer there was a group of three guys who come by the tables every week and bitch and moan about 4e, preach the superiority of 3e/Pathfinder, heckle the players, and disrupt the game (generally being complete asshats). After several weeks of this, the staff and owner of the store asked them to leave "if you're going to behave like spoiled infants." They haven't been back...good riddance.
Sigh. Its asshats like this that paint all dissenting voices as whiny, frothing h4ters who just wish to see WotC fail so that their beloved game will return to print as they remember it by Peter Atkinson/Paizo/Troll Lord/Pramas/The Ghost of Gary Gygax/whoever.
To borrow a quote heard about recent political discussion in the US: Its not the wisest voices who get the attention, its the shrillest.