Afrodyte
Explorer
We're still allowed to get married though, right?
Only in Massachusetts and Vermont, and they're called civil unions.
But you can forget about adoption.
We're still allowed to get married though, right?
Only in Massachusetts and Vermont, and they're called civil unions.
But you can forget about adoption.
I've put up a blog post on this same topic, but since I'm genuinely interested in community input and I don't see all that much traffic on my blog, I wanted to ask the EN World community as well.
Do your friends, family and work colleagues know that you play role-playing games? Obviously the people you live with and game with will know, but what about casual acquaintances or family members you only see a couple of times per year? More to the point in my case, what about colleagues from work?
I work for a big financial services company in a well-respected position. Yet I've never talked to anyone at work about my hobby (let alone the fact that I blog about it). It's a big chunk of how I spend my free time, but I never bring it up.
Granted, I'm not close friends with any of my colleagues, but I know about some of their hobbies and they at least know that I enjoy bowling and that my wife and I take care of foster kittens for the local shelter (and to be clear, I do get some gentle teasing about both of these things). My colleagues don't know that I play D&D.
At work, I'm in the RPG closet. Are you? Is it wrong to hide your hobby if you think people will look down on you for it?
Original poster here. The replies to this thread have been illuminating - thank you all for your input! I like the idea of a poll, although I feel like we have a pretty good idea of the results just from following this thread.
It looks like nearly everyone is open about their gaming to close friends and family, and the question of being open to co-workers is pretty well split between those who game with their colleagues/discuss gaming openly and those who make no effort to bring it up, mixed with a little bit of "I actively hide my gaming from my colleagues." I feel better - I'm not the only one who feels like bringing up my gaming to my colleagues could be a bad idea for my career.
That said, I'm happy to report that I've taken the first tentative step out of the RPG closet today. In an email exchange with a co-worker I mentioned being a nerd (in a non-gaming context) and she commented that she's a bigger nerd than I am. I told her that she didn't know who she was messing with, and that the players in my Dungeons and Dragons campaign would have a thing or two to say about that (clarifying that this was not a joke).
Ah, it feels liberating to show a little bit of my true colors!