innerdude
Legend
That's part of the problem, it's assumed the referee is constrained by the rules, but that's not true. The referee enforces the rules but is free to change the rules as they are the one running the game. And players constantly ask them to change the rules. It's one of the central benefits of having a living human referee instead of playing a video game. The referee is the final authority and arbiter of the game, not the rules, not the rule book, and not the players.
Doesn't the GM have the option of voluntarily constraining themselves to certain areas of the rules?
Of course the follow up question from "trad" GMs is, "Yeah, but why would I agree to that?"
The answer being, that you're attempting to try a different play style / play ethos that's in accord with your players' desires.
If that's of no interest to you as a GM, then carry on.