Hi everyone, havent been around for a while but here I am again 
We are starting a new D&D3.5 game, probably only 2 players (me being one of them) +GM.
The setting will probably be completely inside a big city and the theme will be pretty much along the lines of sneaking, stealing, assasinating and similar stuff. Overall a more rougue oriented thing.
The other partymember will play a Ninja and I've pretty much decided to start a Swordsage because its a martial class but still has stuff like move silently, climb and so on which will probably be pretty important.
Now its my first time using Tome of Battle and also my first time playing a martially focused class. I'm reading up on the rules I will need but thought it would be a good idea to post here to ask:
1. Are there any ultimate "dos and donts" to playing a Swordsage?
2. What are the basics for assigning my attributes for one?
3. Are there any simple but great multiclassing options or prestige classes for this? (it wont be a powergaming game and I dont want some hugely complex build but sometimes there are simple combinations that just do what you want)
I'm looking mainly to play the capable and mean melee fighter that can keep up with the sneaky/silent theme.
Race has to be decided still, might be human or some kind of half elf or maybe a halforc OR I've even thought about a kind of half-orc/half-elf if a good option for that exists.

We are starting a new D&D3.5 game, probably only 2 players (me being one of them) +GM.
The setting will probably be completely inside a big city and the theme will be pretty much along the lines of sneaking, stealing, assasinating and similar stuff. Overall a more rougue oriented thing.
The other partymember will play a Ninja and I've pretty much decided to start a Swordsage because its a martial class but still has stuff like move silently, climb and so on which will probably be pretty important.
Now its my first time using Tome of Battle and also my first time playing a martially focused class. I'm reading up on the rules I will need but thought it would be a good idea to post here to ask:
1. Are there any ultimate "dos and donts" to playing a Swordsage?
2. What are the basics for assigning my attributes for one?
3. Are there any simple but great multiclassing options or prestige classes for this? (it wont be a powergaming game and I dont want some hugely complex build but sometimes there are simple combinations that just do what you want)
I'm looking mainly to play the capable and mean melee fighter that can keep up with the sneaky/silent theme.
Race has to be decided still, might be human or some kind of half elf or maybe a halforc OR I've even thought about a kind of half-orc/half-elf if a good option for that exists.