And yet we've had multiple instances of DMs saying they'd tell players to hit the bricks if the players don't agree to everything the DM wants. The example of the player asking to play a tortle and getting shot down by the DM always ends in the DM's will be done and the player either acquiescing...
I know I play D&D for suffering and toil, microscopic advancement and the constant anxiety that every time I miss read the DM (I gave you all the clues Mr policeman) that I will have to start over from scratch.
Oh. Wait. No I don't. Have fun suffering I guess.
I think its because the board skews to older, experienced longtime players who are mostly or totally DMs, there is a strong strand of posted based on the notion of the DM as Auteur. Which would be fine, but often I feel a lot of differing opinions get shouted down in the process. To the point...
I almost want to say session zero is too late for some of those choices to be made. If you invite me to play D&D, before I even leave the house I want to at least know the edition, setting, and general openness of game options. (Core only, limited classes, low magic, etc). When I pitched my...
While I think that may help, its not the cure for this. Of my entire group, the guy who has DMed the longest and still does run his own game aside from playing, is also the biggest "I want to use this 3pp book" and "here is my five page backstory, no I'm not altering it" player as well. My...
He's in the minority. This board is full of people who think DMs do no wrong. In fact, I'm pretty sure we were just having a conversation about killer DMs with people who didn't believe they existed in the numbers that match the stories told about them. That's so deep in denial that you can meet...