Remathilis
Legend
Official does matter, depending on what you are most invested in and value the most. You think official shouldn't matter, but that preference only matters to you. I do sympathize with you caring about Legends; I loved Shadows if the Empire, for example. But was never as high level continuity as the films were; they didn't even pretend it was. Since we don't share the same values, and you don't seem to even understand how someone can feel the way I feel, we are at an impasse.
You're mistaking my opinion. While there are things I loved about Legends, there was as much stuff I didn't like (yuuzhan vong hello). Same with the new continuity. Thing is, I don't deny the new continuity has its place. There are things I do like (Mandolorean) and I don't feel aggrieved that it has changed. I realize things changed, and things have to change and I won't always like what the changes are, but that's how things are. If I spent every intereaction bemoaning how angry I am that they changed the lore of my favorite fandoms (be it D&D, Star Wars, Doctor Who, or Marvel) I'd never have a pleasant interaction with that which I "love" again. That doesn't mean I can't (and won't) be critical, but that I don't feel any of those companies owe me anything but an honest attempt at a good product.